Happy Birthday To Me @Jenniferjulius/ Why Marriages Fail?.

Hello and welcome to you blog today.

I've been so busy with my final year activities here in school and it's not been so nice but I thank God for everything. Anyways it's my birthday here on Steemit and I didn't even remember until I got a message from @steemitboard. It's been a long journey since last year June. One with lots of sweet and of course bitter experience but all of that contributed to my Steemit story so far.

Steemit has been so helpful fpr me in different categories and im so glad to be a member of this platform. There were times when I barely had one upvote on my Post but at least now I can say I'm doing so well. I want to thank all who has upvote and contributed to my success story so far, God bless you all. I'm still far from where I hope to be on this platform hence I'll keep doing my best for @jenniferjulius. Thank you all. Now to my post for the day👇👇👇

WHY DO MARRIAGES FAIL.
Thibsisnt the first time I've written about this post if I remember vividly but I still choose to write about it today because I just found out more reasons why marriages fail and they are:

• People rush into marriage.
  Marriage is a life journey between two leople who had some accepted to spend the rest of their lives together and as such, it shouldn't be rushed into. We make mistakes like believing Love is enough to keep a marriage forever but No!!! Marriage isn't a mere relationship or friendship when Love will always be the answer and solution to everything. If you don't have the proper understanding of marriage, why go into it.
  You need the right understanding of marriage before going into it, ask questions form married people because trust me no marriage is a bed of roses.

• Women do not submit to their husbands.
  Some men get married to their women older than themselves which in turn would end up not submitting to them. Men love respect but I'm private and public and so when a man gets a disrespectful attitude from his wife all the time, then divorce will be the next and only option. Some men bet their wives not because they love to, but they just couldn't hold back their anger at the way their wives disrespect them, in public most especially.

• The men fail on their part to be the bread winner of the family.
  Some men are so careless about their own family. They don't care if their kids have had anything to eat or day, they drink and get themselves drunk, smoke even on the presence of their family, play draft with other jobless men outside their compounds etc. Some men use the fact that they're jobless to sit home all day and lazy out. Most women lack the tolerance to stay in such marriage for so long.

• Impatient and lack of tolerance.
  Two lovers who know about their flaws need to have tolerance to be able to stay together forever. Nobody has the perfect character, there must be something about your spouse that you do it like but you're willing to stay with them and tolerate their bad part. When you cannot take their dirty character anymore, divorce might be the next option for you. Not everybodu c fully change their spouse so sometime it takes a whole lot of patience and tolerance to be able to live with a spouse who has a dirty character.

• Not watering the love you both feel/have for each other.
  When babies start coming along, married couple fail to do the fun things they used to do before making babies. Lemme illustrate using a computer set, if you once learnt how to operate a computer and you do not have a laptop or desktop to practice with at home, after a while the things you've learnt about that computer will diasapper. If you don't keep loving each other, you might lose your marriage.

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