Not morbid at all its a fact of life, well a fact that our life is only of a limited duration, Our family all know my wifes and I choices, if they want to kee a little of my ashes that's fine but the rest can be spread somewhere special to them as long as it is by the water, I do have a little bit of my fathers ashes that my Sister saved for me, and I have it in a special place in the house.

I to find walking through cemeteries so interesting and thought-provoking, and even though I do not have any friends of family buried here I do have thoughts of them while there

31 you young lady you, I am not to far from 60