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RE: I’m not complaining - Actifit: August 25 2019
Nothing will change if you jump as soon as people ask you to... No matter family, work, if you love them, like it you can say no or not now/today. If you do so it does not mean you do not love them.
Your daughter is already at college has plans. Great. She can wait.
The other one did not finish the project so it was not urgent either.
And for your work.. Can't this be done at work or after you did what you needed to do, write to stay creative?
I hope you make time to be creative again. Do as kids do. Make plans, do it, say "not now" (no arguing) and let someone else clean up for you. 💕
Good advice! Sometimes that is possible and I can set good boundaries. Yesterday, it was more crisis-like for my daughter doing the project. She needed rescuing. It was as simple as that, this time around.
I have these days too, at times you are just pulled into it. So weird the day starts easy plenty of time and suddenly... 😖
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Yes, exactly. You think: here’s how I want my day to go. And then it just doesn’t! All the variables of life and the needs and priorities of others come crashing in, and at the end of the day, you go: Ohhhhkayyyy... that was not how it was supposed to go at all!
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