August: My View, Myself Wk52

I am here to describe the word and tell all about what happened in the month of August and then express my views about September through this contest by @saintkelvin17.

What do you understand by the word August?

August for me is leadership traits like boldness, charisma, and loyalty. For me August brings meaning like making you feel respect and impressive. But for me it turned sour. In the last month of my stay in Australia, I am feeling like life is too strange.

Tell us a brief story of what you experienced in August 2025

My dear Steemian friends,

Sometimes we feel like we've found friends, and then, within a few days, they become strangers. So much so they turn away when they see each other, but this is a true and experiential state of life.

Friendships can sometimes seem very deep, but time and circumstances create such a distance that, despite familiarity, people behave like strangers.

This feeling is a common one that many people experience when old friends drift away or communication becomes less frequent. This often happens because changes in human life are natural. As time passes, people's priorities, circumstances, and thinking change.

Life changes direction. Situations like changing to a new school, college, job, or relocation that creates distance in friendships. Sometimes, our thinking, experiences, or expectations change, leading to disagreements. Friends can become strangers for many reasons, including changes in life priorities, new experiences, or personal growth.

Some common reasons for life transitions could be events like job changes, marriage, the birth of children, or moving to a new city, which can create distance in friendships. When people's attitudes or hobbies change, things they used to do become less appealing. Imbalance in interaction sometimes happens, especially when one friend puts in more effort, while the other inadvertently begins to drift away, maybe intentionally or for a purpose.

Misunderstandings or unresolved conflicts or even minor misunderstandings that aren't resolved in a timely manner can create distance. Personal growth of one could make the other jealous, or because as people progress individually, old relationships can be left behind, and that's understandable because not all can take others' progress normally.

The fast-paced life makes it difficult to devote time to friendships, so it's natural for relationships to change due to these reasons, and they happen at some point in everyone's life. There are some effective ways to resolve misunderstandings that can help protect and improve relationships.

I feel let's give space and communicate discreetly instead of immediately calling or having doubts in your friend. First send a message to gauge your friend's mood, then have a conversation. Sometimes, allowing time to cool down anger and emotions leads to a better solution.

I suggest open communication helps, instead of suppressing the problem or misunderstanding, bring it up clearly and honestly. Asking questions and understanding the other person's perspective can improve the situation.

Learn to listen and understand, so I always try to understand the feelings behind any accusations or statements. I clarify my perspective so that misunderstandings don't escalate, but if the opposite party is not ready to listen to me, I keep a distance. No hard feelings, mate.

Communicating face-to-face is a must when possible, so I try to meet instead of texting or calling, as this allows for a better exchange of emotions. However, if the other party is not interested, can I help it? People say that sharing good old memories can sometimes bring warmth to a relationship by reminiscing about old friendship photos or happy moments, but I don't believe that is entirely true.

Based on your numerous experience was August good or quite bad to you?

After reading my story above do you think it was a good month? I always use simple and clear language to avoid complicated or incomplete statements in conversation if anything goes wrong because we have already done damage, so to avoid further confusion, I don't want to be rude. These methods can help resolve misunderstandings in friendships and strengthen the bond.

However, once a friendship breaks down, it's never the same. We have a saying in one of our local languages that means, "Once the string is broken, you can tie it, but the joint will be visible forever."

This change is part of human nature, however, some relationships stand the test of time. But many relationships drift apart due to changing circumstances or emotions. It's a natural aspect of the human experience. Sometimes a misunderstanding or a specific incident sours a relationship.

People think that saying sorry once will fix everything. Is that true? Before apologizing or asking for forgiveness, it's important to pay attention to certain things so that the communication is positive and effective.

It's crucial to let go of your ego and admit your mistake. First, honestly acknowledge your mistake or role, and understand that the other person has been hurt. If you apologize with understanding and empathy, empathize with the other person's feelings, show sympathy, and speak clearly and truthfully, instead of using excuses or conditional words like "if" and "but" in your apology. Instead, speak directly and truthfully; things can be resolved. But if you you don't want to remain a friend, the choice is yours.

I'm not suggesting you become too emotional or overly dramatic instead, be restrained when apologizing. I am not asking you to beg, and don't underestimate your point. But if you express a desire for a solution and express your commitment to correct or compensate for your mistake, things can be resolved.

And yes, give the other person time, as it's important to understand their side of the story. Respect the other person's feelings and give them time to think and respond. Promise to improve in the future: Make a commitment to learn from your mistake and avoid repeating it. By keeping these things in mind, the apology process can strengthen relationships.

What were your plans for September 2025?

In September 2025, my plans were crystal clear, like I was involved in SLC and also engaging in a variety of activities focused on organization, planning, and personal development. I had intentions to focus on mindfulness, productivity, and creative planning, but then this special incident happened, and all went haywire.

I had made up my mind to go back to my original country, and I informed my office back in India and fortunately got the green signal.

I also joined Steem Atlas as an ambassador in September and started a couple of contests, but I will make it more happening once I am back in India and have more time on my hands.

I have participated in a couple of SLC contests in September and did kind of okay. I planned and set goals for September, which aimed to foster a sense of balance, progress, and mindfulness throughout the month, and am feeling like I did satisfactorily.

I invite @josepha, @rauja and @mahadisalim

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