"Contest: Who Should Make Big Decisions- Mom Or Dad?".

It is an interesting day to participate in this contest organised by @megareigns

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Who do you think should always make the big decisions in the family, Dad or Mom?

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In my own view, and if I were to have a family today, decision-making wouldn't be made by myself alone, because I would allow everyone in the family to share their views. Big decisions in a family shouldn't be left for one person, whether it is dad or mom.

However, in Africa, we believe dad is the head of the family, and dad should be the one to make the big decision, forgetting that both dad and mom should be involved in making important choices because each has unique perspectives, strengths, and experiences that can contribute to the betterment of the family.

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What is your reason for choosing either?

The reason for my answer is that big decision-making should be made by both dad and mom to create balance in the family, because when one person alone is the one responsible for decision-making, it can create imbalance and resentment in the family.

When both dad and mom work together, they learn to respect and listen to each other's opinions and find the best possible solution for the family as a team. By so doing, children will learn about cooperation and mutual respect from their dad and mom.

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Do you think big decisions should be left for only one person to make?

As I have said earlier, decision-making should be for both mom and dad, and it should not be left for one person, because if one person makes all the decisions, it can create an imbalance. With this being said, NO is my answer.

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Family decisions always affect everyone in the family, socially, financially, and emotionally, which means it is only fair that both parents share responsibility. In some cases, where it is the dad or mom who has more knowledge in a particular area, like health or finance, the person can take the lead after discussing it with the other person.

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What is your advice to families going through this phase on deciding who should make big decisions?

My advice to families going through this phase in deciding who should make a big decision is for the families to focus on partnership and communication. They should talk openly about their views, respect each other's opinions, and agree on what is best for the family.

Instead of them competing for control they should aim for cooperation. What is more important is making decisions together with respect, love, and understanding as it is the foundation of a happy family.