Contest: Who Should Make Big Decisions- Mom Or Dad?

First of all, I would like to thank my dear @megareigns and Africans on steem team for choosing such an important and thought-provoking topic and organizing the competition.

This competition is not just a platform to express opinions, but it has also created an opportunity to think about our family values, ethics in decision-making, and the depth of relationships. For this reason, I am sincerely grateful and proud to be able to participate in this competition.
Family means love, bonding, and decisions. But who is responsible for making big decisions in this world of love? Dad or Mom? Although there are differences of opinion on this question, in my opinion, the most acceptable answer is both.

In my opinion, the right to make big decisions should not be in the hands of only the father or only the mother. Big decisions in the family should be made through a joint discussion between both the father and the mother. Because the decision of one may not always be correct or complete. But when both of us think together, the decision becomes more realistic. Both of us have equal importance, like in my own family, my husband values ​​me a lot and we make all the important decisions together. It is not only respect for me but also for the future of our little girl, we think together.

I am choosing both because father and mother complement each other. Father is usually more experienced in the financial, social and external world. Mother understands the feelings, daily needs and mental situations of the family and children very well. When the experience of both comes together, then a decision brings good to the family. I have never chosen one because I believe that a family is a team. Just as my husband supports me, I also support his decisions. We both value each other's opinions to build the future of our two and a half year old daughter. In this, love, respect and responsibility are mixed together.

No, I absolutely do not think that the responsibility of making big decisions should be left to one person. This can create misunderstandings, sadness, pain and disagreements in the family. When one person makes a decision, the other members can often feel unimportant. However, decisions made through discussion are not only good, but also strengthen the relationship. Especially since we have a little girl and neither of us are actively involved in her upbringing and education. Making decisions alone brings distance to the relationship, which I absolutely do not want.

My advice would be that a relationship or family can only move forward in a healthy way when there is mutual respect, trust and open discussion. If someone is hesitant to make a decision, the best way is to listen to each other, understand each other and make a decision together. We must remember that the child belongs to both of us, so it is important for us to walk together for his good. The family where there is mutual respect and discussion brings the most peace and success.

I invite my three friends to such a beautiful competition, @karobiamin71, @Zubayer, @baizid123