45 things I’ve learned now I’m actually 45 that might help you get to 45 so you can see what 45 also feels like — it’s my birthday today.
This is me, Phil campbell, human being from England, son of an Irish dad and a British mother, I made it to 45 years so far on planet earth, if I go no further remember me that I had an adventurous life and that I felt loved and gave love to partners and a wonderful daughter, I never needed more than I really had but always pushed for the extra gravy that comes with life.
This post was scheduled using the fantastic steemauto.com website for scheduling post, let’s hope it worked, i don’t have to type or post today, I can just enjoy my birthday and let the day unfold, how awesome is that? :)
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These list things are bullshit normally, you know the sort, written for views and traffic and instafame and likes and all that fake engagement but I really wanted to put together a list of forty five things on my forty fifth birthday, because why not, I’ve managed to traverse so far and survive for this long on this spinning rock of space dust and even if I don’t go much further I got to this point and can be pumped that I did, that’s why I included photos of a variety of places drinking alcohol because I’m celebrating this birthday.
So let’s get into this, this could end up being a bloody big post and I think I’ll be probably writing it from now until wednesday when it’s my birthday, I started this sunday the 14th and I’ll be adding pictures from when we are in the city of where we will be staying over night, I’ll be posting this one day after my birthday so I can recover and just drop in the photos and boom a post is done, this is called being prepared, I like to be prepared! :)

ok, let’s get into this shit.
- Exercise even when you hate exercising, this will keep you alive
- Don’t take shortcuts on technology - buy cheap buy twice
- Keep your selfish wants and needs in check, always remember karma
- If you have it and can share it do so, spread that wealth around
- change locations to change your attitude, cut down on the caffeine
- Find your happy place and release spaces, they change over the years
- Don’t do something everyday that scares you, that’s stupid
- Your age is a number, don’t be cemented to the spot by it
- Set up all your children to have it easier than you when you die
- Drink in moderation, don’t make fake excuses up for drinking
- Do not purchase a bike with skinny tyres and use tram made roads
- health over everything, material things will exist after you are dead
- have healthy debate and argue, revisit your weird bullshit ways
- Respect the choices others make even when you don’t agree
- the older you get the less you get out of the way of yourself
- Someone else has it worse than you, so take a deep breath and go again
- have an appetite for knowledge, never stop learning, dabble.
- Treat yourself by treating another, do what you cannot do.
- make media of your journey on planet earth, influence is eternal.
- Don’t fuck about making lists, it’s a waste of time and paper.
- Be respectful of the soil under foot as one day you will be under it.
- Take time to reflect on your adultery ways and understand them.
- open the door for people regardless of age, colour or creed.
- If you have extra put a coin into that buskers cup
- Treat your life like Groundhog Day, live multifaceted and useful.
- optimise your routine and learn to disrupt yourself
- make sure you don’t smell, first impressions are important
- adapt to thrive, don’t live inside your head to much without a map
- Do what you say, not say what you will do, iteration is godlike
- Learn to headshot people in online games for extra ego kick.
- Give confidence to those who fight the eternal darkness of anxiety
- Don’t just paper over the cracks of problems, fill in gaps with activity
- Too much of a good thing means your probably stuck in apathy
- Don’t live fast and die young, you ain’t no Han Solo mate.
- Drink and respect water, the planet needs you less than you need it.
- Love and be loved, seek it out with all your physical mental might
- Fill your head with the swirls of music and creativity
- Use a password manager for god sake, it’s 2018
- Learn to unconditional accept the rules of the universe
- decentralise your life, have no point of failure without backups.
- don’t base judgements on your own profits or other false prophets
- Live. each. moment. Don’t exist, do, make, see, love, explore.
- Cry in celebration, death and mistakes, then take a shot and move on.
- continue to take correct actions to be a better version of you
- i’m here, I’m 45, and I was happy today, I was blessed.
love and props to everyone who ever loved me back, to my daughter, I will eternally love you for ever as you showed how a grumpy dad in his forties to love unconditionally even when my grouch side showed up. I will be with you eternally my love — live by these loose ideas, forever in the blockchain — dedicated to my Ella Bella bon Chella bon bon

Happy birthday a bit late ! @teamhumble !
I stopped to read your post here :
LOL :-D I don't want to read that =D
Happy birthday friends, it's great you can still communicate with us all in your happy day. I am proud you can take the time to make a post even though very special day for you. And your post was very interesting, in 45th anniversary you make 45 of this. Incredible friend of your sacrifice. Thank you guys have become my friend to this day.
Hey, wish you a very happy birthday and happy days for the rest of your life too.
Yes!
And hell yeah!
May the universe continue to bless you.
Have a good day!
Happy Birthday Brotha. Had no idea you were even over 40 lol You're clearly doing something right!
BTW # 7 - change locations to change your attitude, cut down on the caffeine is actually 2 sooooo j/k, there's definitely some wise words in there somewhere.
I'll always associate with you (not the exact words, however the sentiment behind it, your actions and the lucidity of your response), the experience of when we were all gathered in the lounge @ the HF in Lisbon that first night and "some1" made a comment about not caring about other ppl (or something like that)...
You just paused and then confidently responded [not an exact quote just more the meaning I got from it] along the lines of "..I don't want to live my life that way, I want to remain optimistic and put my energy into making a positive impact in this world for every1.."
I wish I had remembered your actual work tbh. I already liked you, probably within the first minute or so of meeting you and definitely in the first few minutes of what felt like a 2 hours debate between you and everyone else hahaha j/k (but not really) however, at the particular moment (maybe halfway through) I found myself internally acknowledging that you were indeed an exception person filled with much insight!
I hope all goes your way! Stay Humble ;)
JB
ha! i was double bocked at the time what can i say! i'm normally much more humble and mellow! :) ha! i was just excited to find my tribe! :)
Happy birthday Phil, great advice, I'd also say diversify your investments. That goes for time and wealth! Live long and prosper.
Congrats buddy! Have a wonderful day!
You're so nice for commenting on this post. For that, I gave you a vote!
Great wish...
Happy Birthday Phil - of those 45 even if most people did half of them they would be better off :)
#46 Keep posting on Steemit
Happy b'day Phil, have a great one! And here's to the next 45! :)
well thanks very much adam! very kind, thanks for stopping by and commenting. means a lot to connect with other humans out there in the world.