I felt really touched reading this, not as much sad as moved though - almost encouraged about the existence of our loved ones after they leave us behind here. MOst people wouldn't notice such a thing, but you laid out those dried petals and you and we all see a clear sign right there. If you weren't honoring the memory of your brother's life and character, there would have been no way to see so clearly what lies there. You are a special person so it isn't surprising you see incredible things