We all are victims of that box where we are forced to take a particular pattern in our thinking. We are driven to do and undo things rather than take the wheel and go all the way by ourselves. There is a way this box conditions your thought pattern and it just becomes a norm, I have been there before. Living outside the box is wise from the individual's perception but hey, we still live in a society that if your way doesn't tally with all they expect, victimization begins. I hope that we are able one day to strike a balance and blow out our minds in order to do what's right rather than doing what the norm dictates.