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RE: "We did the right thing and broke up. Still, I am in great pain. Any advice?"
Thank you! Your response gives me more to ponder, discuss and put into action and rings of truth.
I do wonder about the last highlighted line, doesn't matter who you are with, but what aspects you bring.
Aren't relationships a place in which you inevitably bring up all aspects of yourself (both light and dark) and see if there's a place at the table for all? Nobody is perfect, we're growing spiritual being's and so we will each have our difficult aspects and hopefully, once witnessed and accepted, these too can be integrated. Or....?
Yes, totally. Which reinforces what I said. You get into a relationship with someone and bring out your aspects. One, two or three at a time. Doesn't matter. Each aspect evokes from your partner other aspects of him. Then, there's a feedback, a reflection, between you two, to outgrow your aspects, to become the Master, and ultimately the I AM. If the growth is mutual then your relationship will be long, prosperous and hopefully easy and joyous. What I call true-love. If your partner proves to be a one-aspect match only then you release him and carry on.
Thank you for your further elaboration. Like a dance between two and as the moves/steps grow in complexity the two will continue to grow together or eventually not match.