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RE: "We did the right thing and broke up. Still, I am in great pain. Any advice?"
What do you think about breaking up what once was in a relationship and beginning again? A fresh start if the two are willing?
It's blessed because hope and passion are key ingredients in any enterprise, relationship included.
And no doubt the fresh start will serve them both.
Will it last?
Will it be a happy relationship? That is a whole new different issue. It will depend on elements like, how much time has passed since the first try, how self-aware they are now of themselves, how different - consciousness wise - they are now, what are their expectations from each other and the relationship, how much wisdom they have gained from the last round etc.
The thumb rule remains the same - it doesn't really matter who you are with. It matters what aspects of yourself you bring to the relationship.
Thank you! Your response gives me more to ponder, discuss and put into action and rings of truth.
I do wonder about the last highlighted line, doesn't matter who you are with, but what aspects you bring.
Aren't relationships a place in which you inevitably bring up all aspects of yourself (both light and dark) and see if there's a place at the table for all? Nobody is perfect, we're growing spiritual being's and so we will each have our difficult aspects and hopefully, once witnessed and accepted, these too can be integrated. Or....?
Yes, totally. Which reinforces what I said. You get into a relationship with someone and bring out your aspects. One, two or three at a time. Doesn't matter. Each aspect evokes from your partner other aspects of him. Then, there's a feedback, a reflection, between you two, to outgrow your aspects, to become the Master, and ultimately the I AM. If the growth is mutual then your relationship will be long, prosperous and hopefully easy and joyous. What I call true-love. If your partner proves to be a one-aspect match only then you release him and carry on.
Thank you for your further elaboration. Like a dance between two and as the moves/steps grow in complexity the two will continue to grow together or eventually not match.