I need to be heard too🥺
with my youngest son
I always try to be nice to everyone and will always take care of their feelings, but sometimes they never take care of mine...I can understand that.
I am often treated as a wise listener without them wanting to hear my complaints....that is not a problem for me....I can also solve my problems in my own way.
They confide in me and I give them good solutions, but when I have a problem I solve it myself and I hope they don't bother me at that time.... they even know if I'm in trouble but they can see it.
I don't understand, they tell a lot of things with topics that have already been told, but in order to keep him from being offended, I will keep quiet listening to it, but when someone else tells a story, he immediately cuts me off "You've told me that story several times." 🤔
But I never wanted to say that, because I thought that by telling him, it would make him feel relieved and help lighten his burden a little.
I may not be a good person, but I'm not a bad person either... just so you know "you will never have a friend like me" understanding, kind (praising yourself is sometimes necessary to make our hearts happy 🤭😝), and also willing to be a place for you to confide in even though I also need a place to be heard but rarely can get that position.
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It sounds to me you are a good friend and indeed you will never find a better friend than me (you!).
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You know friend? This is the burden those who always help others have to carry as well. If you always give a hand and listen to complaints you also attract very selfish people!
The solution?
Act like they do! As soon as they start telling say: I understand but what do you think about me having issues with.....
Or say like my daughter: Yes you already told that a billion times, don't you have something else to talk about? (next she leaves).
Or: What did you do to solve this problem? What did you do?
You are so right pamper yourself, tell them to leave you alone if they refuse to hear you for a change (put a sign on the door: stay out! Brains at work.
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