RE: The Safety Of A Child Should Be Number One....
Such a sad post to read and I hope your daughter is dealing with this burden. As for the poor child who's been the victim of this abuse by her own brother, I pray she gets the support she desperately needs. Having a daughter myself this post makes me want to cry and rage but as usual these kind of situation leave us all feeling absolutely powerless. God know why someone would do this to a child, never mind their own sister, and I have not one bit of guilt wishing that this boy gets the shit kicked out of him. Maybe this behaviour runs in the family, as that is the usual source, or maybe he's just viewed some screwed up pornography giving him a warped idea of sex. Either way it offers little to the victim or the possible future victims her brother may target. Castration would be my second and more lenient choice of action here.
when the lady phoned me I thought that she said it was happening to my daughter, I went and got my flick knife while talking to her and I was planning for 10 to 15 years of porridge, lucky for him and all involved my daughter wasn't abused.
We have a meeting with social services for my daughter to put her case forward for her friend, (ex friend now)
I feel it for her as she is made out to be a liar, and this isn't the case, before she even went to comp she would get flustered and look away from the tv when people kiss. she isn't interest in sex and then for this to be dropped on her shoulders it makes me want to take her and wrap her in cotton wool.
Lucky for me and my family we have a good support network and we can deal with this and come out strong.
I just hope the little girl in question doesn't go through any more of this while living with her brother, because he is still there and so is she.
makes me sick to think that they are under the same roof.
I'm not a big fan of social workers as they usually have overloaded work schedules and also have their hands tied by lack of physical evidence which usually leads them to having to find ways of closing their cases by falsifying facts. In your daughters case I guess it's harmless for them to be involved but as you can see they have left the other girl in harms way as they can't force issues or read minds. It's a terrible situation and I imagine the boy involved will probably be threatening his young sister to cover his own back. You just have to pray that someone in the loop takes charge and sorts the situation out as quick as possible.
Glad to hear you have your daughters back, these young girls are growing up in a very different world to what we did.
It is a scary world mate, I have her back 1 million %.
I believe her as I always know when she is lying and there is none of her tells that suggest that she is.
The details that she has given to us is shocking, and it upsets her to think about it.
We are not talking to her about it until the day she is questioned as we want her to be happy as she as already told us everything that we need to know.
She is a kid and needs to be able to enjoy her little life just like all kids should.
At the minute we are spending a little bit of time together and she likes that, when she is ready to open up more she will.
I don't like today's world as it is just full of events that when I was a kid was either unheard of or untalked about.
I hope that this girl gets the help she needs, I hope the boy gets the punishment that he deserves.
I hope that his friends find out and it isolates him from the world as he doesn't even deserve a life after ruining his sisters like he has.
just my thoughts.
Agreed completely my friend, you sound like you have a great handle on things and your daughter is fortunate to have a dad like you.