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Hello my steemit friends I hope you all are doing great. I am very happy to take part in this interesting contest called "Jealousy Damned Jealousy." Jealousy is a feeling that most of us have felt in our lives whether in relationships friendships or family. Today I will share my honest thoughts and experiences about this emotion. I hope you all like my post.

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Jealousy is a strong and painful feeling. It can happen in love in family or even with friends. Sometimes jealousy comes quietly and we don't even notice it at first. But if we don’t handle it properly it can ruin our peace relationships and happiness.

Have you been made jealous in a way that made you feel uncomfortable or trapped?

Yes I have felt this kind of jealousy. There was a time when one of my close friends started comparing herself with me all the time. She would get upset if I got good marks new clothes or praise from teachers. She started copying me in everything and slowly began to make me feel guilty for being myself. I started feelings trapped because i could not be happy without making her sad it was a very uncomfortable feelings. I felt like i had done something wrong just by being happy.

Have you ended a relationship because of jealousy your own or someone else's?

Yes i ended a friendship because of jealousy. The same friend i talked about before started getting too jealous. She would get angry if i talked to other friends or spent time with someone else. She started saying hurtful things i tried to fix things many times but nothing worked. In the end i decided to walk away. It was hard but my mental peace was more important.

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What advice would you give to someone who is in a relationship with someone extremely jealous?

If you are in a relationships with someone who is very jealous i would say talk to them honestly lets them know how their jealousy is hurting you. If they care for you they will try to change. But if they keep controlling you its better to take a step back. Jealousy is not love. Love is trust freedom and peace. If a person makes you feel small or controls your life it is not a healthy relationship. You deserve respect and space to grow.

Do you think it is possible to love without feeling jealous? Why or why not?

Yes i believes it is possible to love without jealousy true love means trusting each others. If two people truly love each other they will feel happy when the other person is happy not jealous. Jealousy comes when there is fear of losing someone but if you have strong trusts and good communication there is no need to feels jealous. Love should give you comfort not stress.

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Have you felt jealousy outside of a relationship such as with friends or family? How did you handle it?

Yes i have felt jealousy with cousins and friends. Sometimes when someone gets more praise new things or more love from others a small feeling of jealousy comes. I am human and i accept that. But i do not let that feeling control me. I remind myself that everyone has their time to shine i try to be happy for them and work on myself quietly i have learned that comparing ourselves to others only brings sadness. So now i just focus on my own journey.

Jealousy is a normal emotion but if it becomes too much it can hurt us and others. We must learn to understand it talk about it and manage it in a healthy way. Love friendship and family should bring peace not pain. Thank you for reading my post. I hope it helps someone who may be dealings with jealousy in their life.

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