Nuevo Concurso "Celos Malditos Celos"

Hello my steemian friends,

This is my participation in ”Nuevo Concurso "Celos Malditos Celos" @josevas217 in Colombia-Original

1️-Have you been made jealous in such a way that you feel uncomfortable or trapped?

Yes, jealousy is a natural process, it happens to every person, whether we accept it or not, but the jealousy inside us always keeps burning us from within, if someone like your partner, brother, sister, neighbor gets a better position than you, then it is human nature that he naturally gets jealous of such people, but many people control it. The same thing happened with me, a girl friend of mine in my college, whom I considered special, used to talk very intimately with another classmate of my class, so this used to make me very uncomfortable, jealous and uneasy. But later I stopped thinking about it.

2- Have you ended any relationship due to jealousy, whether that jealousy is your own or of someone else?

Yes, as I have written above, when my college friend started getting closer to that classmate of mine, and then I heard that they both have started loving each other, initially I was very jealous and I used to feel very annoyed. I never expressed my love to her nor did she ever give any such indication, but my mind wanted to have monopoly over her, that is why I ended my friendship with her due to jealousy. And then I became normal.

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3-What advice would you give to a person who is in a relationship with someone who is very jealous?

I would just advise a person who is in a relationship with someone who is very jealous, not to do anything that increases his jealousy. For example, a girl is very beautiful and someone loves her, but that girl has many admirers and whenever they get a chance, other people want to talk to her, and the boyfriend gets jealous of this. The only advice I would give him is to have faith in yourself and don't care about temporary people.

4️ Do you think you can be in love without feeling jealous? Why yes or why not?

No, it is not possible, because when we love someone, we start considering them as our complete masters, and then if someone else talks or talks to them, we feel that maybe they are taking away our mastery from us, and this is the reason that turns into jealousy, that is why we should take many things normally and not get jealous, then the relationship will remain.

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5 Have you felt jealousy outside your relationship, like with friends or family? How do you deal with it?

No, never. I had made myself very capable. I had money, house, electronics, car etc. since a long time. That is why I never felt jealous of any outsider. I also helped someone financially and physically whenever they needed help. That is why people were rarely jealous of me. Because mostly jealousy leads to the progress of others.

I also want to invite here @aviral123 @tammanna and @zisha-hafiz

Thanks for reading my post, I pray to God for the progress and happy future of all Steemians.

Sur-riti❤️