My father in law spent time in the navy and police in a larger city. While i have 0 confidence in carrying I feel confident he does. I just won a personal defence gun in a drawing and may never carry, but if I do it will only after working with him for a while, but I highly doubt I ever will. I just feel if im in a place where i feel I need one I probably shouldnt be in that place to begin with.
I totally agree with you. If I feel I have to carry a weapon for self defense then I am out of here.