"SLC-S24/W1 - Tangled Emotion | The Powerful Conversation".

Hello friends I have you are great today I am here to take part in an very interesting learning challenge that is"SLC-S24/W1 - Tangled Emotion | The Powerful Conversation".I guess it's going to super favourite of married women.

Tasks of Powerful Debate on Wife & Husband

After parents and siblings, if there is any most beloved relationship in the world, its the husband and wife. But I have never been able to understand this relationship properly because for one moment it seems that my husband is everything to me, but the next moment he becomes so alienated that I cannot understand whether he even feels like me or not. At that time, I am addressing my husband and saying.

"Sometimes it seems that you are my whole world. At other times, you make me so alienated that I do not see anything except myself and I am surprised. Oh God, what kind of bond is this, in which I do not understand how I made it more stable and strong. I have changed myself, my habits, my anger for you, but still sometimes you make me so alienated that I am very surprised and I think that if this is the case with love marriage, then I do not know what would happen in arranged marriages."

I am tired all day long, when my husband comes, I think that we will talk a few things, ask each other how they are, tell them about the day's routine, but when I find you lost in your mobile, I wonder what is the status of my wife, we are at work, is she only there to protect the children, to cook food, to clean the house? Where is the relationship between husband and wife? I have never been able to understand. In these ten years, I have given up everything I have, but now it seems that I still haven't been able to find you.

When people say that love is one-sided or two-sided, one should not expect it, but rather be very sorry. A person expects and wants to be loved, taken care of, and asked how he is.

And I know I have come to the same conclusion that this relationship is only about compromises, there is no compatibility anywhere in it and a man probably never accepts a woman, he only cares about his own needs and that is what he fulfills. There may be very good men in the world, but I am telling you what is happening with me.

So married relationships requires a lot of understanding comprising and maturity of the thought so that we can our relationship longer and happy.

1. In your opinion, who showed greater emotional maturity during the conversation, and what made you feel that way? Was it honest, self-control, empathy, or something else. (1.5 Mark)

Well in my point of you both husband and wife are mature enough to be in relationship of married life but it's my personal opinion that women show greater emotional maturity during convert session and show more honest and self control behaviour as compared to men.

And a few people have different appoint a few butts but I am sharing my experience that I am facing in my married life all the way wemen are very emotional in all matters of life but one it comes the matter of emotional maturity in daily conversation will be here while and show greater courage and tolerance as compared to men because in my view will have more stamina to be at the things even which we are not wanted to hear any more but still we show more tolerance in all circumstances just for the safety of our relationship for the well being of our family especially kids.

Although it's not easy for women but I know we can do anything because we wanted to move longer in this relationship of married life rather to spoil the thing for nothing and no gain.

2. Do you believe that emotional cheating can cause as much or even deeper damage than physical cheating? Where do you think the true betrayal begins: in the heart or the body? (1 Mark)

Its the matter of the situation because sometime emotional cheating is done for the time being and to settle the things that are going out of a range and not sort out easily by husband and wife in such cases if emotional cheating is played then its fine because it's going to happen for something good in relationship rather to be nothing.

Yeah that will behaviour obviously affect the heart and body both but the heart is affected more as women think more form our heart rather from brain I am just talking about myself and because I am still emotional in my married life but one it come to settle the thing if I do emotional cheating with my husband after take the thing that normal because I know he never let himself down.

Such as after fight I asked him let's do lunch together or I have a tea you join me although I am not saying it from heart and doing emotional cheating but for himself because if I know I will not said to him he will sit hungry and thirsty for many hour so such emotional cheating is still beneficial.

3. What are some subtle yet powerful signs that emotional distance is growing between partners? Can you spot these red flags before it’s too late? (1 Mark)

The main reason which become the reason of emotional distances among partners are a lack of conversationsthey don't want to communicate with the one and other in many hours because both are busy on cell phone and have no time for each other.

Lack of communication perhaps become one of the major reason of distance in married life and other reason is the conflicts we don't want to talk on the thing which are source of conflict among husband and wife and we didn't have time to sort the things which become the reason of distance due to misunderstandings.

I guess most of the time husband didn't want to hear what his wife is saying and because she wanted love time and care and husband has no time because he thought I am tired and getting relax in social media and cell phone so the wife forget desperate and perhaps just become the reason of distance in both.

Most of the time the behaviour of husband is not polite he used in a wrong way and tone and the women are always sensitive by nature so avoiding them and perhaps become the reason of distance too.

4. Can love truly survive a deep betrayal? What do you really need to rebuild and reconnect with broken trust? (1 Mark)

بات یہ ہے کہ پیار میں بہت دم ہوتا ہے ہمارے ساتھ دھوکا ہو رہا ہوتا ہے اس بات کا عورت کو پتہ ہوتا ہے کیونکہ عورت کا دل ہر چیز کو جانچنے اور پرکھنے کی صلاحیت رکھتا ہے لیکن اس دھوکے کے ساتھ ہم پھر بھی زندہ رہتے ہیں اور چیزوں کو برداشت کرتے ہیں کیونکہ پیار بڑی ظالم چیز ہے یہ میں اپنی زندگی کا تجزیہ اپ کو بتا رہی ہوں بہت ساری چیزیں ہمیں ناگوار گزرتی ہیں اور وہ دھوکے کا باعث بھی ہوتی ہے لیکن سٹیل ہم ان چیزوں کو برداشت کرتے ہیں ری بلڈ کرتے ہیں ری کنیکٹ کرتے ہیں اور ٹوٹے ہوئے اعتماد کے ساتھ بھی اگے بڑھ رہے ہوتے ہیں کیونکہ ہو سکتا ہے اگر ہسبینڈ نے اپ کو چیٹ کیا ہے دھوکہ دیا تو اس کے پیچھے کوئی لوجیکو کوئی ایسی مجبوری ہو جو وہ بیان نہ کر سکتا ہو اس لیے برداشت کرنا پڑتا ہے اور پیار کو سروائیو کرنے کے لیے یہ چیزیں زندگی کا حصہ ہوتی ہیں

Princess with dad enjoying together beauty of love

5. If you were a marriage consultant, What advice would you give to couples in the sheath of heart break and healing?? Speak from wisdom, experience, or even personal pain. (1.5 Marks)

Well!!!! When we are in relationship especially for the couple heart broken is common things and we hurt too but in this case we have two options. Either break up for ever or move with compromise if we have.

It's up to us which one we wanted to acquire I have seen weeping people after breakup it's better accept each other solve the conflict and give time to one another.

The time would come there would be strong compatibility in relationships regardless of cheating and elsewhere, it would be my opinion as marriage counselling because break up is easy but Hurt too it's better accept the things and reality and move on life.

It's also my experience which I am sharing when we are married time is required to understand each other we broke daily and happy too the courage is moved on in relationships with patience and love the life would become happy.

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I would like to invite my friends @m-fdo, @jannat12 and @suboohi to take part in the challenge.