Not so much her but most people from my past comment on how lucky I am to get to live this life. They seem to have forgotten the years I worked multiple jobs and sacrificed to pay off debt and buy land. Luck had NOTHING to do with it.
Paying off the debt so we could be free from the influence and control of others was key. I think she is starting to get the importance of that.
Everyone is so busy trying to be like everyone else and are afraid to be different. One day you realize being different means that you can be YOU and all of a sudden being different just looks a little more inviting. Lol
I think she will come around in time. I respect that it is her decision to make. As they say time will tell.