Exactly, I never tell them I think they are crazy for their life choices but they need to let me know what they think!
And another thing....
When their cars break down and they can't afford to fix them who do you think they'll come looking for and EXPECT it free or cheap like my husband's time is valuable.
Don't get me wrong we'll help them out if we can but learning to say no sometimes has taken a looong time for us to learn but learn it we have.
People need to learn to do for themselves and working at a big corporation making them rich doesn't teach you the life skills you need to provide for yourself.

I am proud of my husband!
That truck engine purrs 👍

Sorry about the rant lol