Yes, fear holds her back. She struggled for years as a single mom of two and has been trained to be a model employee. A beautiful soul!
If ever anyone deserved a peaceful life it's her.
I hope when I get set up that she will come visit. If she wanted I would gladly offer her to stay at our place. Give her the same chance we have been given. A chance to learn with a safety net. But I don't push, I do a lot of listening.