Oh, I'm so glad to hear that! I'm glad it was helpful. It was a long journey for me, but I found as I watched them play that they really were getting a lot out of it. I'm not a gamer either, so I don't really get it, but I know they get something. It's awesome you respect them choosing their path. I find that with my younger two, having finally really let go of the inner battle, they way often prefer playing other games and playing outside to any screen. Sometimes when they're being crazy and dangerous (my 5 yo is a piece of work), I'll try to talk them into sitting still and watching a movie or playing on the tablet, and of course they totally resist that. "Leave us alone, mommy. We are happily playing!" It's all about independence and the power struggle.