Thank you@nicksikorski, for your feedback, I hear what you are saying and I agree. Not all dams are damaging especially when used the right way, indeed some are built naturally by beavers. My inspiration for this post came when I was driving past a huge dam yesterday that has greatly effected the land around it. For me everything in life needs to flow, our emotions, our ideas, they need to flow through us and not be held. But I do like your analogy of a healthy dam. Thank you for stopping by and sharing that with me.