Hello,@drtarts, I haven't been able to read all the messages you attached to this post yet. You must be going trough a lot being in such a situation where you can't see your daughter. But I stopped reading the moment you asked if you should involve a social worker.

NO NO NO NO NO NO

Please don't think of doing that, I believe there are other ways to handle this issue, bringing in a social worker will only not help you, but will as well put your dear Daughter in serious harms way of losing you both!.