That is an adorable post and I hope more and more dads will think like you as humanity progresses. I was lucky to catch a good dad when I got married almost 30 years ago. You can't really tell until that first bundle is born, can you. My girls have grown up to become amazing young women who know what they want while being most loving and caring at the same time. I put that down (at least a big part of it) to the fact that their dad has spent a lot of time with them when they were little, and they always knew how much he loves them (and me). It looks like your wife and children are as lucky as we are. :)