Married away from home, scarred by the first marriage, can you still get married again?
Like the title, it’s a period of confusion now, just as it is a tree hole, I hope I feel calm after speaking.
When I was young and frivolous, I was ignorant and fearless. I followed my ex-husband to marry thousands of miles away. After giving birth to a child, my ex-husband was typically irresponsible. Before prosecuting the divorce, the ex-husband was able to raise the child with nothing but a few hundred dollars when he was noisy. He also gave the child a dog-blood sprinkler. The child’s life and learning were never questioned or not. Responsible. Since my child’s junior high school, in order for my child to be less wronged, I will not quarrel with him over a few hundred dollars of child support, and I will no longer ask him for a penny of child support, and raise my child by myself until the college entrance examination is completed. . After the child’s college entrance examination, he did not even have the face to participate in the wedding wine. After the child’s tuition and living expenses were persuaded by his family’s seven aunts and eight aunts, he still did not want to be held accountable. , It has been more than three years now.
At the beginning of August of this year, a single group of men took the initiative to join me and introduced his own situation. He was of the same age and even harder than me. He was a full-time undergraduate graduate and a technical backbone of a medium and large enterprise. He divorced and never left home in 2006. , For various reasons, I left the house in 16 years (the house is left to the ex-wife and son, which is a one-time understanding, saying that the son will not be burdened by him in the later period). At present, except for the old house left by XX's parents, he now lives in the unit dormitory. When I introduced myself, I said that I had nothing, no house or car, and his ex-wife was a college classmate. Currently, the staff of the institution is expected to receive good treatment. I graduated with a bachelor’s degree and have been a manager of small and medium-sized enterprises. Currently, my daughter and I live in a house under the name of my ex-husband’s father. To be honest) He is paid almost twice as much as mine. This is the background.
After two days of chatting and adding V to continue chatting, exchanging photos, it feels okay, everyone is more honest and frank, he will send me a lot of information a day, and I will reply when I am free. In those few days, it is estimated that every day will be early After talking to the night, I talked a lot about the past and discussed some problems in the second marriage party. After a few days, I said, if you don’t particularly value the economy, from the perspective of communication, we might be quite appropriate, as shown in the figure below.
I chatted for a few days and asked to meet offline, and I met in a small shop in a new village, which is said to be an online celebrity shop. Just when I got home from work, it was about two or three kilometers east of the main line, but it was far from the place where he got off work. After discussing for a long time, I went to pick him up from his shuttle bus. The first time I met, I couldn’t avoid being vulgar. I took a second look, a thin and small person, and then navigated to the restaurant, a small box, just suitable for two people, or the kind without windows, the decoration is idyllic. . At first, I was a little wary. Why did I decide to have a windowless box? Later, I guessed that I saw my vigilance and nervousness. He opened the door to eat and chatted with each other. The whole thing was more pleasant. After eating, we went to the park away from him to go around for a digestion. After returning home, he confessed, saying that it was very heartwarming. Everyone try to get along. Every day after work, he walks 6-7 kilometers or takes a taxi to come to me and ask me to take a walk. During the walk, he talks about his past. I just listened quietly and occasionally interjected. Walking together every day, he has endless words every day.
During this period, there were two things that made me a little bit reluctant to go. The first thing was that one day I sent me a picture of a bracelet of a certain brand, which was worth a thousand dollars. I asked if I like it or not. Give it to me. My answer is okay, it doesn’t matter what you send, what matters is your heart. Later, he said that many women blacked out men after receiving gifts from men. I was very uncomfortable after hearing this, and clearly expressed my opinion: if you don’t trust, don’t ask and don’t give it. Who cares about this. Many things. He took more than a thousand and pulled black. That's a liar. (Of course, it is confirmed that such a woman exists in the society, and it is estimated that he has been fooled). I guessed that my face was not pretty that day, and I didn't want to continue. Think of me as someone. Ugh. After explaining for a long time, I was neither cold nor hot, and went home early that day. After he got home, he sent a lot of information to explain. He said that one day he would take me to the physical store and buy it if he liked it. Later, the topic did not continue, and I would not even mention asking him to buy me gifts. Gifts don’t depend on the gift. If you have an idea, don’t give it. I can buy whatever I like. This matter just disappeared, and I didn't mention it later.
The second thing, after a walk one day, he suddenly said to me that we went to rent a house and lived together but did not receive a certificate. At that time, I turned my face and wanted to leave. If you are co-authoring, you just want to find someone to live with. I'm sorry, I won't accompany you. When a man loves a woman, he should give the least a sense of security. I don't want you to be rich and expensive. You can also have no house. We will buy a house together in the future (in fact, if we get married, we should not have too much pressure to buy a house together), but we cannot have such an idea of not paying responsibility. Later, I dragged me to explain for a long time, saying that it was for my consideration. If he is his own, he will be alone, and he can go to get the certificate right away, and he can get the certificate tomorrow. He estimated that I would not promise him to get the certificate at the moment, so he said this. Anyway, just because I have a certain idea, I don't want to continue, so the chat is not lukewarm. As a result, explaining the matter every day after the day after tomorrow may be brainwashed, so I believe it.
A few days before the Mid-Autumn Festival, I invited me to his old house in XX to see his home. He went out to study when he was a teenager and never went back much. After his parents passed away, he went home and cleaned up the house. Now All are rented out to people who work in other places, and they have a room for cooking and lodging. I hesitated and didn’t want to go. He brainwashed every day to pretend to be pitiful, saying that it’s meaningless to spend the holidays alone. Anyway, you also spend the holidays alone. The cause of the epidemic, universities began to learn after the Mid-Autumn Festival). On the same day, he drove back by himself very early, saying that he would call me to eat after he got home to cook. He was about 20 kilometers away from my home. When I went, he burned five or six, and one of the braised pork was burnt. He said he burned while cleaning upstairs, but he didn’t pay attention to it. The unbuilt house looks rather dilapidated at the back, but it was reinstalled at the front. The house is also obviously old. Some messy stools and chairs are placed at home. I didn't dislike it either. I sat down and ate it. After eating, he cleaned it up. This is better. I will clean it up. It's my favorite type. After eating, there is no place to rest, but his room. He also agitated me and said dare to go to his room
I took a lunch break and said that I would never be moved. The room is quite large, estimated to be about 30 square meters. The decoration style is the same as that of a few years ago. The six sides are all solid wood, but it is really clean and tidy. The TV cabinet was relatively large, so I sat on it and watched him take out the bedding from the cabinet and start making the bed. I said you go to sleep, I'll sit here and play with my mobile phone and go back to the city together later. The man’s mouth is a deceitful ghost, you know what happened later