A person may not be successful, but must grow!

in #happinesseffort3 years ago

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  I rewatched the movie "The Pursuit of Happyness" today, and I wanted to record some of my experiences.
  If you define success as: to be at the top in a certain field, at least first-class; to have a lot of wealth or status or fame or talent, and to live a life that others envy... Only a few people like this. On the contrary, there are many people who work hard to achieve success, or feel unpredictable and anxious about the future.
  If we have acquired wealth, status, fame, etc., why do these things serve? These things are all labels that outsiders give us, he is a rich man, he has a lot of status, he is very famous and so on. Our ultimate goal is to live a happy life for ourselves, not the labels of others. What are the key elements needed to live a happy life? Emotional and spiritual abundance, and economic independence, are indispensable.
  Material abundance alone is not enough to support a whole happy life. When you look at happiness again, you also need to redefine what success is. There is a gap between ideals and reality, anxiety, loss or doubts in our hearts will lead us to the entrance of growth. The body will gradually mature and age with age, but the growth of the mind can last a lifetime. We will gradually understand that people do not have to pursue a certain kind of success, the most important thing is to walk their own way and live their life in their own way.