Loneliness
Hello friends how are you all doing today I hope all is well and you all are having a nice and wonderful day, today I will be discussing base on the topic "loneliness"
There's this famous saying that "Loneliness is a power, only if we know how to use them" and also "Loneliness is dangerous when it becomes an addiction"
All of the above mentioned lines are based on fact because they are absolutely right, if you try looking at them from different perspective and point of view.
Some people will always want to be lonely even though they have as many people around them, they will always try to distance themselves away from others and the funny part of it is that they will still be complaining of being lonely
So now let's explain or throw a little insight on the above two facts starting with the first one;
Loneliness is a power, only if we know how to use them |
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Now, why are wild animals dangerous? Well they are dangerous because it is difficult to predict their next moves, needs and grieve, same is applicable with a lonely person, because when no one around you understands you they can never be able to predict you next moves making you invincible and unpredictable which of course turns to a super power for you
Loneliness is dangerous when it becomes an addiction |
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Now loneliness that was seen as a power is now rated to be dangerous, why? Well great powers comes great responsibilities because being invincible and unpredictable isn't always enough because every one's in a while a person needs to mingle and associate with others.
So now we are going to move over to why some people chooses to be lonely, the reasons behind this;
The reasons for loneliness |
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Some of the most relevant reasons that makes a person to choose loneliness instead of associating with others are;
- Rejection
- Life defect
- Finances
The above three mentioned are some of the main reasons why people chooses to be lonely instead of mingling with others, so now let's through a little more insight on them.
Rejection |
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Though rejection means redirection, but to some people it means the end of the line, so many people mostly in the relationship aspect after being rejected too many times they prefer to choose the path of loneliness, and they would generalized the whole thing that "after all I will end up being rejected, no matter how hard I try"
Life defect |
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And this is one of the main reasons why so many people chooses the path of loneliness, now this life defect covers numerous aspects of things which include stamaring, handicap etc.
Some people who have this defects would choose to stick to themselves instead of going to embarrass themselves Infront of someone, at the same time those people who are physically challenge would also want to stick to themselves simply because they think they are not good enough for someone.
Finances |
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Now this one is rare but trust me I have seen them, some people mostly men would prefer to distance themselves from love simply because they know that they are poor, they just cherished the mindset that no one wants to associate with a poor man and for that reason they choose the path of loneliness.
For what is what I do not think that anything should trigger a person to choose this path of isolation, we all know that no one is perfect as man is filled with defect and sin, so we should endeavour to cherish our situation and move out from the darkness and into the light, mix and associate with others have fun with them and build meaningful and cherishable memories.
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