Life will always have a higher value

That is the main problem.

Sometimes you can't choose sides, you are simply on the wrong one, by fate's bad luck.

"fate's bad luck" cannot be misused as excuse to apologize my being on the wrong side (if one might speak in this manner). Finding myself on the wrong side has ethically viewed only one consequence: 'change side or dy trying'.

There are circumstances where there is no clear option to choose, if we evaluate the closest consequences.

I agree.

The questions are quite complex to answer, I don't think there is a precise answer to them, because there is a lot to think about and a lot to analyze.

That's my post about. ;-)
Thanks for reading and co-thinking. ;-))