It's a good reason to be "difficult"/by far not every guy is a great catch.
My grandmother said she had lots of respect for her stepmother marrying a man/widower with children and taking the responsibilities. I doubt she would have done that.

Imagine you have to get pregnant of a guy looking like that 🥴

Looks: 👎
Intelligence: 👎
Humour: 👎
Self-esteem: 👎
Health: 👎

So far itbdiesn't sound good. Wives died during the pregnancy/delivery or because he killed them.

The question remains: where does he find the next wife? Does he buy the parents?

It's better to be difficult, remain single and give those flowers back on his way out before he gets some weird ideas.

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