Hello My Steemain Friends ,

How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting and knowledgeable contest which is launched by @josevas217 all time my favourite topic """Jealousy Damned Jealousy""" So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic

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Jealousy is a human nature, it is a natural thing, from which a person cannot escape even if he wants to. Jealousy is more when you are working on the same post. And you are working equally hard but despite that you do not get promotion. If someone else gets promotion or if you have a sister-in-law and a sister-in-law in the house, then if your mother-in-law and father-in-law show favoritism towards all their daughters-in-law, insult you, then also jealousy occurs.

I have never ended a relationship due to jealousy, but yes, I have definitely reduced giving respect to them. When you do not get respect from the front, then you should also not give that much respect to anyone. Now I give only as much respect as he deserves. In a house, if you are also working equally hard and respect everyone, even after that if you are insulted, you are ignored in the house, your opinion has no value, then wasting time in such relationships is useless. When you are working hard at home, doing equal work, but the one who is not working at all, does it only for show and gets equal love at home, then jealousy is natural.

My advice to that person would be that a jealous person cannot think about your well being. It would be better to keep a distance from him. For example, I will tell you, my son had a friend, they used to spend a lot of good time with each other. But when the result was out, my son got more marks and he got a little less. So when it came to prize distribution, that friend of my son wanted that my son should not go to collect the prize.

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But when my son went to collect the prize, when he came back, he said, hey friend, it's friendship, when I did not get the prize, why did you go to collect the prize, then my son told me. I said, this is nothing and at many such places, the jealous nature of his friend came to the fore, which we felt. For example, if my son's photo is on the school banner and his is not, then I agree that it hurts. But he told my son that I cannot tolerate your photo on that banner, so I warned my son to stay away from him, such a jealous person can harm you.

To love or not to love without jealousy depends on the circumstances. Because if you love someone very much and that person gives importance to someone else instead of you, then I probably cannot tolerate that. But I believe that every relationship has its own place, it gets love and respect according to its own, so it is not right to be jealous in every relationship. Jealousy does not happen when your trust is unbreakable. Jealousy is such a poison, which hollows your body from inside.

If parents give more importance to other children then children get jealous, if their children give more importance to others then parents get jealous. So this jealousy is present in our mind every moment. The more you run, the more it will run with you. Therefore, to control it, it is necessary to have faith in your relationships.

To be honest, I have felt jealousy in only one relationship, that with my sister-in-law. The only reason for this is that when I came after marriage, my mother-in-law was not there, everyone in the house pampered my sister-in-law. As soon as I came, I was told to serve my sister-in-law, serve my sister-in-law and my sister-in-law was so rude that she wanted me to do all the work. Even if I did all her work, she was not happy even after that. She used to get busy with work as soon as everyone arrived.

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She used to sit the whole day, as soon as my father in law, my husband came home she would immediately get busy in working just for the sake of showing and my father in law, my husband all used to praise her so I used to feel jealous of her that without doing anything she is getting so much respect and despite that she used to cry in front of everyone that I am poor. I have done a lot for this house and everyone used to sympathize with her so the few years after my marriage were painful for me. My sister in law lived her life on her own terms because her husband used to dance on her fingers and this became the reason of pain for me, which became the reason of my jealousy.

I would invite my few friends , @josepha, @solaymann , @max-pro , @suboohi , @afzalqamar

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