Contest: Who Should Make Big Decisions- Mom Or Dad?
Assalam o Alaikum My All Steemit Friends
I Am @Hina-Imran.I am happy to join this new community and to take part in this contest. The topic is very interesting and it is related to parenting, which I really enjoy discussing.
Who Should Make Big Decisions in a Family.Dad or Mom? |
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In every family there comes a time when a big decision has to be mad. Some people say the father should make it becaus he is the head of the house.Other say the mother should make it becaus she understands the home more closely.But in my view a big family decision should not come from one person alon.It should come from both parents togethr.
What is Your reason for choosing either? |
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A family is like a small team. In a team if only one person decides everything, the other members feel ignored. But when they sit together and talk the final choice becomes stronger because both sides are heard. The same thing happens inside a home. The father may see things from a financial or outside point of view, while the mother may see things from an emotional and daily life point of view. When these two ideas are combined, the result becomes more fair and wise.
Do you think big decisions should be left for only one person to make? |
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If big decisions are left for only one person problems slowly grow. The one who makes all the decisions may feel heavy pressure and the other may feel unimportant or unheard.After some time this creates distance in the relationship. But when both parents talk openly and think together there is peace and unity.
Some families follow old traditions where the father is always in charge. Other families believe the mother should decide because she spends more time at home. But today family life is different from the past. Both parents shar responsibilites and both have a right to speak.What matters most is not who is stronger or older but who is wiling to understand and coperate.
What is your advise to families going through this phase on deciding who should make big decisions? |
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My advice to families who are confused about this issue is simple: sit down and talk with patience. Do not treat it as a battle of power. A big decision becomes easier when it is made with respect, listening, and trust. Instead of one person saying I decided it is better to say we decided.When children see this teamwork they also learn respect and good values.
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In the end I believ big decisions should be made by both Mom and Dad together.Unity keeps a family strong and when love guides the choice the result is always beter for everyone.