Contest: Who Should Make Big Decisions- Mom Or Dad?"
Hello my dear Steemians,
Today I wanted to write for this contest that is running by @megareigns , here is the link if you are also interested:
https://steemit.com/hive-113505/@megareigns/contest-who-should-make-big-decisions-mom-or-dad-yy0jpj
Family is one unit that consist of two people who decided to spend life together. This kind of decision is very important and if that is made that often means that these two people understand each other very good, that they also love each other and often if this is a case then they wish to support each other and adding from both side into their family life.
When the family has children, that only means more responsibility to make sure that children are save and well looked after that means that we have to be alert all the time when we have little children, because if not then often something could happen like fall, injuries that is why both people should share equal rights and also the decisions should be discussed and made together.
We are all people and we all can make mistakes and be wrong in our decisions. That is why a lot we can discuss and decide what is the best in sake for family. Each of us has experience in some fields and we could be very good in one or other things. That is why only with respect to opinion each other, we gain the harmony in our lives and that will be also good for our children. Children always look up to parents and learn since their young age, that is why better to start teaching them on our own examples.
Especially in making big decision should not be done by one person, because it will affect the whole family. Also often each party will feel respected if any decision will be discussed and decided together. It is almost like anywhere in our life, at our work and even in politic, we have to make decision together like one unit if we want to have strong and happy family.
My advise is to treat each other with respect and without a feeling to compete, it is their own life and two people who be like two arms of one body. It is not possible to do something with one arm and that is why only together we are strong. We should support each other with both our words and physically. If there any problem then we have to speak up and have an opportunity to discuss it. Do not blame each other and do not seek for a guilt of anyone. The goal should be how we can fix it and how we can repair something rather than to look for whose mistake it was.
I am inviting following users for contest: @rumanaafroz, @monz122, @uzma4882
0.00 SBD,
0.02 STEEM,
0.02 SP
Thank you for reading my post and for support :)
Saludos apreciado amigo. Ciertamente, las decisiones deben tomarse en conjunto. Es necesario el reconocimiento y respeto por cada uno de los individuos que forman una familia. Considero que el padre es representativo pero representa la decisión que fue discutida y aprobada en concenso. Te deseo éxitos y bendiciones.
Often I also think that the decision might come from one and accepted by anotehr at hte end it comes up as combined maybe because of the love and respect of both parties.