Ahhh, nothing like a good holiday ghosting to get you in the spirit, eh?
When our kids were growing up (and actually still to this day), if something happened that a friend behaved poorly, or dropped the friendship for no discernible reason, and they asked, "Momma, why do people act like that?" I would answer...

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Then they would roll their eyes and tell me to stop being such a pain thank me for the life lesson. #truth
And to all of your "to" statements there at the end...

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Hahah! Yes, exactly!