I could remember when I asked a lady in the church where she got her energy from, I mean almost every time she will tell me she just returned from school, and she is tired and that after a few minute she will be cooking, I tell you the truth, maybe that one of the contribution to my very slim fit body which many ask if I will ever be fat, as a guy If I had the money I would prefer taking snack and if in abundance I'll go grab some satiable meals outside rather than being choked up with so much work..

This is entirely true and I don't know if this gender feels if they give less than expected in terms of what to eat they will be termed irresponsible, often times I tell mum to relax and stop cooking because for me I have adapted to this condition but others may not. It is very wrong to come back home and request for another meal as a man when she had prepared a meal before, many men do this and I see this as slavery.

Have you heard of the phrase "my mother in-law is a witch", this phrase goes to mother inlaws that feel they are still entitled to their sons affair/marital wellbeing after marriage, for crying out loud, his responsibility is to take care of you, and a piece of advice is acceptable but also forceful taking your place as a third party may definitely cause conflict in your marriage..

The woman actually build the home and make marriages work and it's is also the responsibility of the husband to shower her with so much care and love to keep a balance, but I am against a woman doing everything at home..

Your daughter are young and I feel you will be more relieved when they are capable of assisting because to be frank a maid will never assist as your daughter, a maid may consider hectic work as slavery but your daughter she will consider it as been productive for the family growth...