In real life, we are used to expressing ourselves with our mouths, but this has caused a lot of trouble and caused a lot of disasters.

In fact, to be a human being, one must learn to be silent, manage one's own mouth well, say less of what you should say, and don't say what you shouldn't, so that you will not be troubled by your mouth and you will be able to behave better.

So, when should we learn to be silent?

1. When you are in a trough, you must learn to be silent.

To be a human being, you must understand that when you are most failing and desolate, no matter how much you say, no matter how reasonable, and no matter how motivated you are, others will not take it seriously, and will even treat what you say as a joke after dinner.

Therefore, when people are in a trough, they must learn to be silent, don't complain, don't complain to others, because complaining is useless, and complaining will only make people watch jokes.

You have to survive the trough in silence, you have to endure the pressure in silence, and you have to endure the strange eyes of others in silence. You have to accumulate in silence and gain momentum.

2. When being misunderstood, you must learn to be silent.

On the road of life, when you are misunderstood, don’t rush to explain, because those who believe in you don’t need to explain, and those who don’t believe in you have no use to explain.

So, you only need to be yourself and choose to be silent. You have to know that some things, the more you explain, the darker and darker they will be. In the end, you will not be able to clean up after jumping into the Yellow River.

Silence may not say anything, but silence is the best way to tell. Besides, time witnesses everything, time proves everything, and some things are better left to time.

3.When the argument is fruitless, you must learn to be silent

In life, we inevitably have disagreements with others, so we arguing, saying that the public is justified, the mother-in-law says that the mother is justified, and whoever is reasonable cannot be convinced.

In fact, when we argue with others to no avail, we must learn to remain silent and not continue to argue. It is meaningless. You need to be clear, you can explain the truth, you don't need to argue, and if you don't understand, arguing is useless.

Moreover, some people don't make sense at all. If you continue to argue with them, you will only waste more time and energy. It is better to be silent.

4. When discussing right and wrong, you must learn to be silent

When we are chatting with people, if someone discusses the right and wrong of others, you'd better keep silent and don't express your own opinions.

You have to know that there is no impermeable wall in this world. If you talk about others behind your back, others will know it sooner or later. Moreover, your words may change their taste when they reach others' ears.

Although there is no one who speaks behind and who does not speak behind people, it is better not to talk about people's right and wrong. If you can stay away, stay away, and if you can't stay away, stay silent.

wirte at the end

Silence is not easy, silence is not simple, silence, it is not shrinking, not compromise, not yield, not cowardice, it is a mature expression.

When you understand that at the right time, choose a timely silence, you will find that sometimes it is better not to say it than to say it.

May you be positive and optimistic and have a good day every day!