Yes, I understand you perfectly.

Marriage is not bad.

Point is that some see it as a solution to all our problems. For instance, some young people just want to get married to escape their parents who give them trouble. Lol.

Blame it on Cinderella stories and "happily ever afters". But as you pointed out earlier, marriage is only a part of our lives. So it has its ups and downs. Which is why individuals must come in prepared mentally, financially and otherwise.