The September contest #1 sduttaskitchen| Can a best friend become a good life partner?

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Hello friends!!

Am thrilled to be here..

Do you think a best friend can become a good life partner? Your viewpoint!

Have heard people make statements like marry your friend many times but is it really true? In my opinion Best friend can become a good life partner or it may not work that way.

I have best friends make and female who when suddenly the guy asked the lady out so they could be more than just friends and that was how that friendship was destroyed. The became sworn enemies because the guy asked her out.

In my opinion not all best friends become a good life partner. Although in Relationships it is always good to start as friends. For me I feel the major thing that makes a good partner is with the persons personality wither they are your friends or not.

But it's lovely when best friends become life partners.

Do you believe Friendship and becoming life partners are distinct? How?

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Yes friendship is far beyond becoming life partners. There are people that are best at just been your friends and nothing more.

There many male friends I have but if you ask me to choose them as my life partner I would object to it. I feel they do not have qualities I want in a life partner. I know them well enough to have seen all of their parts good, bad and ugly. So I just prefer to have them as friends.

I believe marriage is forever therefore if I want to have a partner I should choose what I can handle, I mean the character qualities. Friendship maynot be for ever and your friend may not even be living with you but you see your partner, you both will live together so friendship is distinct.

In friendship there are things you may not be comfortable with but you just allow it because you are just friends and because the person owns you nothing but in life partner, no way! You say things the way they are because you know it a life long thing. You own each other the truth. For instance I have friends that they may come to me for advice and after the advice, the gospel their way to do the opposite and it ends up bad for them, when they come back to tell me, I just laugh over it because am not so responsible for them.

Friendship is superficial but been a life partner is deeper than what we can even see.

Share some pros and cons if one accepts a friend as a life partner!

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Some Pros

• Accepting your friend as a life partner gives you liberty to been yourself immediately after acceptance.

• You do not need to start a fresh to getting to know each other because you already know yourselves.

• It avails the opportunity to be open minded without fear of judgement

• There is more tendencies to understand yourselves better

Some Cons

• There are no surprises or suspense because you know everything already

• The day you try to disagree with an opinion then you are seen as a bad person because you have always agreed in friendship

• There are no opportunities for self improvement because you feel he or she knows you already.

• Most times your partner judges you based on your past mistakes.

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