Incredible India monthly contest of July|Balance and judgement!
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So let's start.🍀
🍀.Do you believe judgment needs the help of balance? Share your views.
We are living in a fast-paced and fast-moving world where it has become common to judge anyone. Nowadays, people find the same solution to every problem, judge things in their own way, and then forget about the things they have done. They don't think about how it will affect the next person or what my words might mean to the next person. We can only guess this from the fact that as soon as you open Instagram, if someone has uploaded a video of themselves, the thousands of comments below are criticizing them. They are just judging them. They write bad things about them. No one is giving them a positive side. And after doing this, they move on to the next video. So, I think it is easiest for people to judge at this time. They have to end the conversation by judging and then move on to the next thing.Balance is needed. Balance is needed everywhere. It is better to use your words with moderation. You forget to measure and weight your words before presenting them to others, which affects the next person a lot. So, even if you are being judgmental, you have the right to evaluate your words with moderation and not speak such harsh words for anyone. However, if it is your duty to judge something, it is better that you know the whole story.
🍀.How much does a balance help us to make correct judgments? Describe!
I would like to explain this to you in this way that when we talk about balance, it is very important for us to know both types of stories because I know very well that when we get the right to judge something, we forget everything and are thinking about the stories of only one site. We take that thing in our mind first which satisfies us where we can be less subject to criticism of questions, so we try to take an easy decision and judging is the easiest way but balance is very important in this.
I remember that a few days ago, I used to see a reel on Instagram, it was a girl, she was not that beautiful but people's used to comment on her every day and say that do you look like Aishwarya Rai, shardha kapoor,alia butt and used to make such comments on her and she started to be happy with this thing and she always used to say that well now I look like this actress, she makes herself happy. She wanted to do it, but people started criticizing her just because she was making herself look a little bigger, and millions of bad comments started pouring in under her videos.And the next day when she made the video, she was crying a lot in which she said that I also look in the mirror, I know that I don't look like them, but when you said that, I also told you jokingly that yes, I look like them, so there was no balance in the words that people said, and because of their lack of balance, they judged her in such a way that the confidence that was inside her was somewhere gone. I was understanding that girl is now in a lot of pain just because of this society that only love to judge.
🍀.Do you believe balance and judgement are the two sides of the same coin? Justify!
Yes, somewhere , like if you judge, then you are not able to balance things, and if you are balancing and understanding things well, then you will not have any judgmental quality because a judgmental person is someone who thinks so much of himself that he is not bothered by his own shortcomings and is not hiding from the shortcomings of the person in front of him. He considers it necessary to just say things. But I think that in today's society, people have started judging more. People judge each other by their clothes and then by their appearance. They judge how bad a person is at heart. No matter how good a person is at heart, I am not saying that judging someone is a good thing. Why should we become someone's judge when God has not given us the right to judge someone in a bad way or say bad words about someone, as we all know that girls who wear the clothes they like, even if they wear shorts, boys can guess by looking at them. We assume that this girl is not good, her character is not good, and many parents also say that your small clothes are the biggest reason for misbehaving with you. Therefore, it should not be in our favor to judge everything so quickly. If someone in front of us is living the same life, then that is their problem, right? Why do we suddenly become the watchmen of the entire society and then we start judging people, and when someone in the same situation comes with us, someone judges us, we get angry.