I really love this write because it is one of those things that have been really disturbing me. It is so often in African churches and settings.
When I came across this your post, it really catches my attention because I honestly don’t agree with how society often gives recognition only to the wealthy. In my eyes, Mr. Akpan is just as hardworking, if not more, because his daily sweat, struggles, and sacrifices are what keep his family going. It hurts to see people like him overlooked simply because they cannot donate millions in church. Yes, Mr. Edidiong’s giving is valuable, but money should never be the only measure of hard work. True honor should also go to those whose hands tell stories of sacrifice. Before God, both wealth and sweat are precious.

I must say, I strongly condemn the way many churches openly give recognition only to the wealthy. It is disheartening to see the house of God, where love, humility, and equality should reign, become a place where money speaks louder than sacrifice. The poor man who labors daily, sweating to survive, is often ignored, while the rich man who donates is paraded as the “hard worker.” This is not the standard of Christ. In God’s eyes, effort, faith, and sincerity matter far more than the size of one’s offering. The church must stop this bias and honor both sweat and wealth equally.

I really appreciate you for writing this story and for bringing such an important truth to light. You have highlighted something many people overlook, the value of recognizing effort, not just wealth. Your comparison between Mr. Akpan and Mr. Edidiong clearly shows that while money has its place, the unseen struggles, sweat, and sacrifices of the poor are just as worthy of honor. This is a reminder that in God’s eyes, every act of labor done with sincerity has meaning. Thank you for boldly addressing this issue and reminding us to value both wealth and effort in equal measure.

Thank you for sharing this great piece of reflection.