Life indeed is like a midst😢. Please accept my heartfelt condolences, they may be easily forgotten after death, but God Almighty won't forget them. Please console yourself with Revelation 21:4 "Death will be no more, neither suffering or outcry". Hmmmmm, it's hard I know, but please be strong for your family, the demise offsprings and for the congregation. They're both awaiting resurrection, when Jehovah will call, and they'll answer.