From the way you describe her, she truly seems like someone you'd want to use as a role model, but without losing our own essence and identity.
There are people who have a great power to communicate, to the point of moving us and making us identify.
Like you, I think fame shouldn't be a burden. I wouldn't want to be in the shoes of someone who expects to please everyone; besides being forced, it's impossible and unfair.
Fortunately, that's not the case with the writer you admire so much.
Thank you for the invitation. Best of luck.
Absolutely, our identity matters a lot,
Thank you.