Contest: The Secret to Strong Relationships

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Hello Everyone.

Am @meehu.
From Pakistan🇵🇰.

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“What do you believe is the number one secret to a strong relationship?.”

When it comes to relationships, the relationship between two people is very beautiful and very sweet as long as there is no third party involved or your words do not reach the third person. The secret I have seen in relationships is that when you depend on a third person or start sharing your words with them, your relationship does not work the way everyone else tries to hit your privacy.. I have seen many relationships in which other people are so involved that they keep playing tricks on your mind. If two people are with each other, their friends, if you keep sharing your things with them or take the help of a third person in every fight or argument, then it would be better for you to end your relationship right there because a relationship between two people becomes beautiful only when it remains between two people and not a third person. And the most important thing is that you are not trusting the next person until you involve a third person. All these little things ruin your relationship. So in my opinion, the secret of healthy relationship is to keep your love, fight or argument to yourself.

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“What role does active listening play in building stronger connections?.”

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This was a big problem in every connection that the person in front of you doesn't listen to you. Sometimes I have seen many people who are very interested in what they are saying and they even hope that you will listen to their whole story and remember everything about them. But when they are talking, they don't listen to you after you finish. So this character is very important. For every relationship, when you give your full attention to the next person or listen carefully after him or react to what he says, then the next person also realize that you are excited with him/her or that you are taking interest in him/her. Sometimes people stop telling you their story even when your interest is gone. I have often seen couples where if two people are talking, one of them is only listening after that and then he is thinking in his mind what stories I will tell him after that. Most of the time, the problem is just something that we They are not good listeners.And many fights are caused by your not listening, so it's much better for you to listen to things which is belonged to your loved ones.

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“Can a relationship survive without forgiveness? Why or why not?.”

No, not at all. If you want to have a relationship, then you have to soften yourself. You have to put your ego and your attitude aside and give your 100 percent because relationships don't work like that. Relationships need your softness to work, not your ego because your ego can destroy things. Sometimes, there are situations where it is better for a person to forgive the other person for who they are. And sometimes, there are also relationships that we cannot even think of forgiving. As I will describe you, if we talk about cheating or extra marital affairs, we cannot justify this situation as a woman or man. We cannot forgive because at the moment when your partner has made a relationship with another person, you may think that your relationship was over there.because i don't think its love or your partner love you. But there are some things that we can forgive, which can lead to petty fights or arguments. Or someone using bad words with someone else, these things are forgivable. It depends on the situation whether it is forgivable or not.

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“What’s a common mistake people make in relationships that weakens them over time?.”

As much as I have understood about relationships, I have understood only one thing that you cannot control your partner. When you start controlling them, in the beginning these things do not affect them that much, but with time these things seem much worse and your partner feels as if you are making it difficult for him to breathe. In the beginning, your asking them all this seems like care to you and in front of you he considers it care but the things that they do with you make you realize that you have penetrated the life of the next person a lot and at some point that person starts getting tired of you and this is what makes the relationship the weakest. When the partner does not trust the partner and takes every little thing from him while he is responsible for taking his own decisions, we are not children nor are we in the old days where it is very important for us to know everything. You can blindly trust someone. If you love , So you have to give him freedom.

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Truly the right amount of listening can boost the moral of a relationship and make strong bonds possible.