Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 105: Things I Can't Do For Love
What do you understand by the word love?
For melove means care respect and kindness. Love is when you think about the happiness of another person and not only your own. It is a feeling that makes you support and protect someone you truly care about. Love is not only between a man and a woman. It can be the love of parents for their children the love of friends who stand together or even the love we feel for our country for nature or for the things we do in life. Real love is pure and it never destroys anyone. It gives peace strength and hope. In simple words love is like a bond that joins two hearts with trust and honesty.
Have you ever loved anybody if yes why?
Yes i have loved many people in my life. First i loved my family deeply because they are the closest to me. My parents are my firsts Loved because they sacrifices so much for me and always guides me on the rights path. I also loved my brothers because they are my support systems. Even though they sometimes fight or tease me i know their love is strong. I also love my friends. Friends make our lives colorful and happy. They share our good times and bad times. Another types of love i haves is for my teachers. They helps me in my studies and guides me towards my dreams of becoming a cardiologist. I love them because they give me knowledge and respect. So yes i have loved and the reason is that love makes life meaningful and gives us strength to keep moving forward.
What are the lines you will never cross for the sake of love?
Even though love is strong i believe it must always have limits. I will never do something wrong in the name of love. For example i will never lose my self-respect for anyone. If love asks me to lower myself or to do something that goes against my dignity i will not do it. I will also never go against my family values. My culture and my parents respect are very important to me. If love asks me to disrespect my parents then that is not real love. Another line i will never cross is harming myself or others. Some people lie cheat or even hurt themselves for love but i believe true love never asks for destruction. Lastly i will never give up on my dreams and goals. My dream is to become a cardiologist and no love can stop me from working hard for it. If someone truly loves me they will support my dream instead of taking it away.
How best do you think love for others can be expressed without hurting other people’s feelings?
Love can be expressed in many beautiful ways without causing pain. The best way is through respect and honesty. When we love someone we should treat them kindly speak to them politely and support them in their hard times. Small actions of care like helping someone in need listening with patience and standing by them show real love. Another important thing is respecting boundaries. Every person has their own space and choices so love should not control or force. Instead it should give freedom and understanding. Love can also be shown through sacrifices but sacrifices should never cross the line of losing our identity or values. In my opinion if love is making someone feel hurt stressed or fearful then that is not love. Real love always brings happiness not pain.
I am inviting friends @akareen @peacemike @axgustine
Love is beautiful thing hope you know that??
You're right we shouldn't hang around people that don't want to grow with us.
Especially if they don't include themselves in our plans