Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W2: "Easy Come, Easy Go"

What do you understand about Easy Come, Easy Go?

I still remember very well the moment I acquired my first English dictionary in my childhood and my overwhelming joy with that , and I still remember most of that sentence to which I opened its pages in the section devoted to proverbs and wisdom. “Easy come, easy go” That is the phrase that I opened the dictionary to , and it opened my eyes to a fact that we overlook every time to cling to the mirage before everything simply disappears and we remain stuck in our delusions.

As we live in an era of speed, we become obsessed with ready-made things , so we seek available success , quick fame , and easy love , and its trade has become the most popular , and training courses and books with titles such as How to become rich in three days and How to learn in two days without a teacher , spread. “How to seduce your lover in seven steps” , and everyone is looking for the illusion of easy success according to his size.

As a result of this illusion, you find our generation has become convinced that an idea alone is sufficient to create real success without strong foundations or formation , so that most of the small contracting projects end in failure ,and you find us drifting behind hierarchical marketing networks that delude us with quick profit before they also collapse in a limited period. As for the highest degrees of the pioneers of this delusion , they are a type that does not move a finger and spends its life searching for signs of success in the interpretations of the horoscopes and books on the interpretation of dreams.

Have you ever experienced a condition in life like that ? Share your experience if you have any.

After finishing college , and at that time , I was feeling frustrated and waiting for the future in a gloomy way , and one day during that time , I found a message on the social networking site Facebook of a young man who works as a pharmacist in which he defines himself and how he is a successful person.

The content of the letter convinced me at the time that it offered me a real job opportunity and that it was a way to prove myself and compensate for the losses I had suffered during this period. At the time , I didn't know anything about network marketing and didn't even know the meaning of the term. At the end of the letter was an invitation to attend an event taking place at one of the nearby locations me , only an hour after reading the message. The early enthusiasm took hold of me , and I thought that I would only become a businessman after a few hours.

When I went to a corporate event , I found a large number of students attending the event with great passion and enthusiasm. I searched with my eyes and found a girl whose features showed that she was not coming for the first time like me and like the majority, so I went to see her immediately and introduced myself to her and i tried to open a door to talk to her, at first she was welcoming but at the first question she shook and showed confusion over her features and inability to answer my question. My question is , " Who owns this business ? " And after a few seconds his response came to me , " We are all owners of the business, and anyone who enters has almost become a partner of the business. "

Her answer puzzled me how in two and a half hours I became a partner in a big company as I heard after the paragraphs ended on that occasion and found the person who sent me the message telling me more about the nature of work and the method of profit, and the first request he made me was to buy one Of three things, a cell phone at a price that far exceeds its price, a feminine perfume that is not worth the price, or clothes at fabulous prices During the conversation of this young man, he said to me: "You have to make a purchase so that I can make up for my loss in the phone I bought." And I discovered the meaning of network marketing, and I preferred to get away from that world permanently! I don't trust quick profit, and after researching, I found out that it is all about deception and fraud. You are deceived, then you work to deceive others, etc.

How did you deal with the instant success that disappears in a short time?

What all those who are successful in their fields share is patience and perseverance, as they all started from scratch, and chose role models for them to follow in their path, then moved from failure to failure until they were almost defeated, but they did not give up, but continued moving until fate smiled at them and their efforts resulted in success and they made They have a successful name in their field, most of the successful YouTubers today did not achieve success from the first time because they came up with an idea out of the ordinary, but rather developed one type of content and gave it the necessary attention and focus until they reached what they wanted.

And this is our problem, that we are looking for quick success that comes from the first attempt, and if this success does not come - of course - we start cursing our luck and announcing our defeat, but this success that we are looking for is nothing but an illusion that we invented, success is the result of patience, perseverance and hundreds of failed attempts .

What lesson can be drawn from this expression?

Everyone is looking for a party ready to join in the means and applications of social communication , starting his story with a click of a button and ending it with a block , believing that he is faced with many endless options that allow him to find a new partner in minutes , forgetting that what the winds bring , the whirlwinds go away , so that the stories of our youth are filled with misery and disappointments and our courtrooms with divorce files.

This fact does not only inhabit our lives and our personal actions , but we find that it creates the fate of the peoples. Our peoples also wanted to make a ready change and an easy revolution , only to retreat months later and live on their losses and grow old without living that historical moment.

Everything has become seasonal. We sit contemplating its passage , as if watching the sunrise and sunset of the day , so we wake up every day to a new fashion , in which we forget the books of yesterday that were written in a hurry, his music that caressed the ear and was absent , his dreams that passed through the mind and evaporated, and close people passed our door and their steps today went without effect.

If it happened that the winds of chance threw a fresh leaf in front of you without making an effort to catch and preserve it, then do not be surprised if a whirlwind of disappointment passed to take it away, and do not cry for its departure because it simply was not yours from the beginning.

That is the year of life and its divine justice that makes true planning and sincere determination the secret of all success and the source of all development... In that, let the competitors compete.

What if you associate the statement above with a romantic relationship If you have any, could you describe it?

I firmly believe that romantic relationships have the saying that what comes easy passes away, and that what comes after long struggle and hardship is what lasts. Love is one of the things that require fighting and toil, and its existence can only be achieved through fighting.

Those who are called the lucky ones in love or the easy ones are nothing but victims of a fast-disappearing lie who soon collide with the harsh reality. It's a form of admiration, nothing more. It is not fair to call it love, but what comes after a long struggle, after a fierce fight with the painful reality, after torrents of tears is what deserves to be called love.

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@kouba01