It made me sad reading your post and imagining your situation. I had to powered down for some reasons so I can feel your pain but inshallah everything will be happy. I don't know about you but since you didn't share the mean (I think) behavior you got from your relative with your family considering it would break or distance the family relationship so I am sure you are a good-hearted and mature person. May Allah solve your problem soon (Amen)