"SLC-S24/W4 - Powerful Debate | Deal or No Deal".

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How are you all? I hope you are well. Another great competition is underway in the fourth week of Powerful Conversations, and I am here to share my views about "SLC-S24/W4 - Powerful Debate | Deal or No Deal". Thank you so much, @ruthjoe, ma'am, for giving me the opportunity to discuss valuable topics. I am ready to participate in the fourth week of Powerful Conversations. Let's get started.

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Debate topic: - Do you think that it is ideal for a husband to bear the financial burden of a family alone?

I am presenting my opinion in opposition to this opinion.
The idea that the husband should bear the financial burden of a family alone is from ancient times. Once upon a time, men used to earn money, while women usually stayed at home and managed the family.
That era has changed a lot. With the change of era, there have been many changes in the work of men and women. Now it is not only men who are involved in income. Along with men, women are also involved in income equally. Therefore, my argument is that women should take responsibility for the family along with men. Now I am presenting a few reasons to support my argument-

Participation in economic prosperity: -

In my opinion, those who still think that the responsibility of handling the financial burden is only the work of men have their humanity left over from ancient times. Times have changed; women have become well-educated.
Women are earning the same income along with men. What is that income for? I would say of course for the family, to support the children, to restore financial stability in the family.
So, I would say that women should use their maximum capabilities for the economic happiness and peace of the family. They should not just sit quietly and impose the responsibility on men. This husband is her, this family is her, if the members of the family can live happily and peacefully, she will also get peace. That is why her participation in the family is absolutely necessary.

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Participation in bringing independence to women-

To those who say that the husband should take sole financial responsibility, I will say that if only the husband earns income in a family, the wife has the right to teach, but many times she cannot spend anything independently. She has to take money from the husband, and she has to give an excuse for why she needs the money. In addition, we all know that she has to accept many inconveniences. Due to these inconveniences, unrest is created in the family and there are cases of family breakup.
But if a woman earns income, if she has participation in the family, then she will not have to be a victim of these unwanted inconveniences, she will be completely independent. The family will have her own opinion; there will be respect for her willpower. She will not have to be a victim of humiliation at every step.
So, I would say that the participation of the wife is necessary in the family, without imposing complete responsibility on the husband.
Then both people will have equal rights in the family. Both will be able to manage the family with equal respect.

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Creates dependency –

A common idea is that whoever has money also has power, but we all know that a family is happy with equal participation of both husband and wife. Now only when the husband earns, he tries to maintain his dominance. The wife is prevented from being valued equally. On the other hand, the wife, due to not having her own income, is completely dependent on her husband. Due to this, the dependency layer in the family increases. The seeds of unrest are sown in the family, and that unrest eventually takes on a huge shape.
But if both husband and wife have equal participation, then no one will be dependent on the other. Both will be able to move independently in the family from their respective positions.

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Removes harmful thoughts-

An old idea among men and women is that women should stay at home and men should earn money. But this idea has come to an end. Now women are staying, women are running the country, going to the space, fighting in war, occupying the CEO position of big companies.
Why should we keep those who have so much talent locked up in the house. Being educated by the current technology, I cannot even think that the money a woman earns is for our financial well-being, so why do we think of locking her up at home?

Conclusion-

A famous poet of ours said - Behind the success of all the welfare matters in the world, a woman has contributed.
I agree with the poet that a woman has contributed equally to the success of the family. Whether it is financial or something else, money is especially needed to run the family, where women have to step forward along with men. We have to try our best to ease the husband's suffering. We have to remember that the husband and children are all her. With the joint efforts of everyone, happiness and peace in the family return.
So I will say again that women's participation is absolutely necessary, not just putting the financial burden of the house on the husband.

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