Actually, we should worry for tomorrow and it's wise to do so and build something for when you get older and if you have responsibilities like family/children living by the day is also no option.

Sleeping well is easier said than done, you can not simply switch the brain off. At least I can't and if I drove such a distance up and down to find out my relatives changed over night I would have had question and for sure not smiled.

Everyone has a life, everyone has the right to hear the reason and that's what I miss in this story.

The relatives are free not to borrow but they can have at least the decency to say why and not let her drive such a long distance and laugh at her face.

And if we don't like something, we need to look for the positive and thank Allah for the good things we have today.

Sounds like a good tip for those relatives and honesty wouldn't hurt either. Why not say during that call there's no money to give?