RE: I'm tired. I am sad. I hope my life is fine
I don’t think it’s complaining if you say how you feel and it’s the truth. Why should you pretend everything is fine when the worries and bills pile up? It’ll only affect your health and make you miserable. I admire that you keep smiling even when you’re backstabbed and laughed at. Honestly, I gave up on that a long time ago—I don’t see the point in pretending.
You know, no matter how hard my life was, people always assumed I had no worries because I never spoke up. The result? They always think you have all the solutions—you give and give, you smile and ease their worries, but the moment you need something, every door is closed.
That’s not how it should be. In a relationship, both sides should put in the effort.
I agree with you—it’s not wrong to ask for help, whether from family, a neighbour, or even a stranger. Like I said: You might not always get a ‘yes,’ but it’s always worth a try.
Asking isn’t easy, but neither is saying no or setting boundaries. I truly hope you’ll do that to protect yourself, and I’m glad to hear Steemchiller is willing to help you.
As for the other Steemians, remember—you can’t help everyone, and you can’t do more than your best. And that is enough. You know what I say? If you can't do anything for me, who knows, one day you can for someone else. I like to believe that those kind acts can generate a wave of kindness and love, a sort of domino effect.
I’m happy to have you as a sister. Thank you so much. I'm sending you a big hug. Let’s stay in touch, okay? Have a good day, dear sister.
Yes sis. that's right. actually don't complain too much. Yes, I always try to smile when there are problems, because that's the only way to calm myself down. even though mind and soul are down.
I'm not wrong, right? Because I asked them, they are relatives of grandmother, father, mother. Yes, I would have already done that anyway because I had no other way. But I only get sadness. I don't have a problem, I'm fine, and I never get angry or resentful… Yes sis. I am very moved and sad. because steemchiller always helps me here. This is really touching, steemchiller has helped me a lot.
Yes sis. I can't give the best to all steemians in this world. But now I have tried and tried my best. Sis, that's very true. I am very happy to hear what Sis Wakeupkitty said.
Thank you very much, sis, for this very impressive response. I hope you are always fine and happy🫶
Trying to keep smiling is a way to calm yourself but that only might work at that moment. It didn't work if it came to those people laughing at your face.
I wonder how you feel now? Do you still feel down and can you manage? Did they contact you and apologise and inform if you arrived back home safely?
If these are relatives of your grandparents and parents this is your family too. So no sister, you are not wrong.
It's good to hear that steemchiller can help you out and you can help him too. Still, I do believe that you will one day tell them straight into their face how they treated you. Not today, since you will not be strong enough but remember that if you always smile, they will never stop till you set your boundaries.
I believe you do more than your best. Don't forget to relax as well.
Do you have a hobby, something you like to do or to create to ventilate?
Take good care of yourself. I will stop by again.
Sweet dreams and a happy new day.
Be blessed.