SLC-S24/W1 - Tangled Emotion | The Powerful Conversation
A Wife Debates with Her Husband on His Affairs with Other Girls |
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Having external affairs is main reason of increasing divorce cases. In India, There are many cases use to come in lime light where husband is having external affairs and he tries to hide this relationship from his wife and when wife gets clue or any hint so debates gets start.
I am also married, I am blessed that I have beautiful relationship with my wife. We rarely have arguments, because of we care each other, love each other and most importantly we trust on each other.
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But still she is very possessive to take about me, if I use mobile excessive so she gets disturbed and she tries to check out my mobile at any cost but trust me, I enjoy this because I feel her genuine love and when some one loves so they have full right to debate.
It is mandatory to understand that you are in relationship and you don't have right to break someone's trust so easily.
I have some contacts who generally ditch their wives, they are having excessive external affairs and having physical relation also with other girls even they provoke me also but I am father of daughter, I always think that if I will do wrong with my wife, later on some one will do wrong with my daughter so I don't have right to use her emotions even I respect her love, care and trust.
My creative discussion:
In this story, I am with wife, Wife sat infront of him and hold her emotions and anger because she knows if she will cross limits in asking questions so matters will get more mess up but she is asking his clarification that what is going on?
Bravo! Husband is saying, it is just friendship. It is very easy to cover up all messy things to use friendship word. But He should understand that what is difference between love and friendship.
Wife replied very good that no friends will say that you were mine ...even no friends will chat at late night or having chat using love imogies.
But husband k replied that You were busy with kids and house .. Oh common just shut up !! How dare he says like this ?
Did his wife bring kids and house from her own home?
He forced him to serve all responsibilities in house and made them busy with house work . At that time, he needs everything should be perfect and what about kids ? Husband is not responsible for kids ? First he imposed all duties and work of house and kids and then very easy to say that You were busy and I needed time...
I strongly protest against this thought.
In your opinion, who showed greater emotional maturity during the conversation, and what made you feel that way? |
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In my opinion, wife showed greater emotional maturity during conversation because she was in full of anger but still she hold her self and was asking clarity from him and I also felt that she is trying to solve this matter because she loves him and she is having kids and if it will mess up so it will impact on house, kids and her life so she is showing greater emotional maturity where husband is just trying to make her fool and giving excuses that you were busy with kids and house
Wife is honest, her husband is giving excuses just to save himself or prove her wrong that you did not have time for me..
Do you believe that emotional cheating can cause as much or even deeper damage than physical cheating? |
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Absolutely Yes !!Emotional cheating can deeper damage, because outer wound can be seen, but inner wound is not visible but it hurts more n more .
Someone loves you alot, always care for you, think for you, she is dedicated to her relationship and -suddenly she gets know that her husband is having external affairs so it impacts very bad because it breaks any one's confidence, some time people can not tolerate and they went on wrong path due to excessive pain.
What are some subtle yet powerful signs that emotional distance is growing between partners? |
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There are many powerful signs that shown that emotional distance is growing..
1. If husband is changing his mobile password again again that's mean something is cooking in mind
2 if husband used to spend time, went out side of home on holidays but now he goes for party, shopping without taken you so if its powerful signal that he makes you fool.
3 if husband does not give proper time so it means he is loosing interest on you.
Can love truly survive a deep betrayal? |
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According to me No ! If husband's love would be true so he will never think to give her betrayal.
But it is depend on person to person and situation to situation.
For a example : In my contact, There is is man whose name is Sanjay, he is buddy rascal. He has very beautiful wife and having 4 children but he went somewhere and having relationship with bar dancer and his original wife is very genuine and very good but she managed and accepted his external affairs because she depends on him for house expenses, kids responsibility..
If you were a marriage consultant, What advice would you give to couples in the sheath of heart break and healing?? |
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If I would be marriage consultant so first I will make husband understand that you should respect her feelings, she was always with you in your good and bad days and now think that are you doing right with her?
You are giving excuses that she was busy in kids and house so, these are not only for her. But you should coperate with her.
Spend some quality time and remember those days or moment where you and her used to spend good days and holiday.**
I also make wife understand that, take some time for you and upgrade your self. Give time to husband so he will not distract. It is good that you are serving your responsibility towards house and kids but in these works, wife forget that she should give time and enjoy some quality time.
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