Your words are raw and powerful — they capture a truth many are too afraid to speak about. The pain of being dehumanized, especially when you're in a vulnerable state, is something no one should ever endure. Your experience speaks volumes about the quiet strength it takes to say “no” even when others make you feel guilty for it. You were never wrong for protecting your dignity — you were incredibly brave. Thank you for sharing this deeply personal story. It matters. You matter. And your voice deserves to be heard, again and again.